Friday, December 31, 2021
Sunday, November 28, 2021
Florida - Thanksgiving 2021
We had a lot to be thankful for this Thanksgiving & we got to do it in Florida. We had pretty good weather, even a semi-calm day where I floated out in the ocean. The boys boogie boarded and enjoyed the ocean a lot. The one cool day we had we ventured to Gumbo Limbo Nature Center to check out the animals in the sanctuary. We also did a walk at Arthur R Marshall Loxahatchee National Wildlife Refuge and found an alligator hanging out under a dock.
Sunday, August 29, 2021
Colon Cancer Coalition Walk
We did our first annual walk for the Colon Cancer Coalition. Our team raised over $3k in just over a week! Fred asked if there was a colon cancer walk a little over a week ago and I found out there was one on 8/29 - 9 days away. So I check with the fam and most were able to make it work and I made my pleas on Facebook and got so many generous donations - very humbling! This morning we had a gorgeous morning to walk and make room for the Cheesecake Factory (which we've all been hankering for since we haven't gotten to do the Breast Cancer Walk and our annual feasting at Cheesecake Factory after that).
Defensive Player of the Games/Scrimmages
Wyatt is playing tackle football and he's rocking the defensive line. They had their first scrimmages on Saturday morning and he got the "Defensive Player of the Game" chain for his tackles & sacks.
State Fair 2021
We made it to opening day of the State Fair! Just 13 days after surgery and I was up for all the walking and eating that goes with a day at the fair. Rain was in the forecast, so we at as much as we could as early as we could. There was no 4-H show that first day, so that kind of threw off our rhythm, but we managed to wander around and enjoy the fair with crowds that were less than half what they usually are. We made it until about 2 when we were riding the Sky Ride & the rain and high winds alert came. Then we high tailed it out and made our way home. Wyatt and Jacob had commitments in the evening, so we'd planned on leaving about 4 anyway.
Saturday, August 21, 2021
Pathology - Great news!
I waited patiently all week for my surgeon to call with my pathology results. I finally talked to a friend on Thursday night who asked if the results were posted in my Allina on-line chart... ummm, I hadn't set that up yet. So, I go home and setup my chart and find my pathology results - that were posted on Tuesday! So, I sent the results to this friend, who happens to be an oncology professional, and she interprets all the great news for me. No evidence of cancer in any of the 24 lymph nodes they removed, clear margins, and classified as stage 1. Per recommendations from the cancer center it looks like no chemo for me, I will wait to to talk to my oncologist to fully celebrate that, but I remain hopeful on that possibility. I did make some calls on Friday and finally got a call back from the surgeon's PA who apologized and didn't understand how I hadn't been called with results earlier, but she also confirmed the news I'd received.
SO, I AM CANCER FREE!!! Best news ever.
Tuesday, August 17, 2021
Survived Surgery
I had surgery on Friday August 13th. Dr. Spencer and his team removed "just enough" of my colon/rectal tissue to remove the malignant mass. I was in the hospital until Monday afternoon. We are still awaiting pathology results from the surgery to see what the next steps in the battle are.
Sunday, August 8, 2021
Blommels & Michaels Weekend
We also spotted this eagle in a tree right down by the shore. He hung out there for about an hour. I missed him fly off, but it was cool to watch him.
Wednesday, July 21, 2021
Cancer
It's been 3 weeks since I had a colonoscopy and the doctor said "we found a mass that we believe is malignant, we are going to set you up for a CT and an oncologist appointment". I knew when he wanted appointments set up before getting the biopsy back that he was pretty sure about what he saw.
My colonoscopy was June 30th, the call came on July 2nd to confirm that yes it was cancer, but the abdomen scan came back to show that no other masses were present. After two nights of very little sleep, the knowledge that it appeared to be contained to one spot, helped me sleep again and relax a little. We told the boys about the cancer and there were some tears, but we believe that it's a very curable cancer and let them know that too.
I've had an oncology appointment, another CT scan to make sure my lungs were clear, an MRI to try to determine exact location and see if any lymph nodes are involved, and an appointment with a surgeon. The MRI was inconclusive about the lymph nodes. I will have to wait until surgery on August 13th to get final staging and determine if any lymph nodes appear to be involved. I'm feeling very optimistic about the outcome of all of this. Depending on results from surgery, we'll make a treatment plan after that - chemo is likely, but not guaranteed.
You learn you have cancer and you want to attack it and get it out as fast as you can, but that's not exactly how things go. The part that gives me comfort is that I had signs (blood when I wiped after a bowel movement, sorry TMI) since last summer (I don't recommend waiting and if you ever have this symptom and think - oh, it's red blood (not dried), so it's harmless (like I did), still get it checked out), so I don't think its growing or spreading at a fast rate - so 3 more weeks to wait for it to come out are probably not going to make a difference (per the surgeon, not just me).
Prayers and positive vibes appreciated.
Baseball Season


Thursday, July 15, 2021
Minneopa
We had seen the falls a few years ago, but we decided to make another trip down to Minneopa State Park and check out the bison. We hiked down to the base of the waterfall and Coop showed us he’s good at parkour.
Thursday, June 17, 2021
Jacob Umps
Jacob didn't think he wanted to ump, but after his friends were doing it and making $40 per game (or more), he thought maybe he could. He didn't get on it early enough to get many games on the schedule, but his first one was Wyatt's game! Fred assistant coaching, Wyatt playing, & Jacob umping. Gav & I cheering them all on.
Wednesday, June 16, 2021
Valleyfair
Middendorf day at Valleyfair - Corey, Logan, Riley, Parker, Jill, Riley, Julie, Jordan, Fred, Amber, Jacob, Gavin & Wyatt. It was a hot day, we moved kind of slow & spent some time at the water park.


Thursday, June 10, 2021
Wyatt transforms
Wyatt had been growing his hair all thru the pandemic. He said at one point that he'd cut it once we didn't have to wear masks anymore. So once he was done with school, we found some time to cut off his ponytails and send them in to Kids with Hair Loss.


































