Thursday, May 22, 2014

Surgery & Recovery

I've been growing a goiter for about a year and a half now, and feeling quite old about the whole deal. Fred noticed a lump on my neck in December of 2012. I had it biopsied and it was benign, but it kept growing and was at the point that it needed to come out before it impeded my ability to breathe or (heaven forbid) my ability to swallow/eat. So on Tuesday I had half of my thyroid removed. The surgery went well, the lump appeared benign (they'll do further pathology to confirm that) and they left the right half in there to hopefully pick up the slack. After surgery I was slow to come to and they apparently had a schedule to keep at the U, so despite my attempts to lay back down and go back to sleep they continued to prod me along and get me out the door by 2 PM, after and 8:15 AM scheduled surgery, which must have started closer to 8:45 at the earliest. 

My mom came down on Monday afternoon to stay with my boys and get them off to school on Tuesday and then take care of me on Wednesday and Thursday. Thankfully the recovery was quite easy and we did some shopping yesterday and enjoyed watching Jacob and Gavin during their track and field day at school today. I have one more day off which will include breakfast with friends, before the three day weekend.

Jacob's 9th Birthday Celebration

Jacob got to open presents on the morning of birthday and then headed to school with cupcakes to share with his class. After school Grandma Nancy was here to enjoy a pizza supper with us. We FaceTimed with Aunt Alyssa while Jacob opened his RipStick from the Rosenbergers. Then Jacob was off to baseball practice.

The rest of the week was busy with soccer, baseball, and cousin Donavon & Cindy's wedding, but on Sunday afternoon Jacob got to take a few friends to AirMaxx to enjoy some jump time and gaming. After they worked up their appetites on the trampolines, we took them to Smashburger for supper and shakes.

Jacob's gifts from his family included MineCraft for XBox, Operation, pitching net, and water bottle.

Jacob opening presents from friends at SmashBurger.

Jacob with Grand, Mason and Aaron in the van.

As good as a photo from my phone gets at AirMaxx.

A Time to Dance (or play tag with cousins)

Fred's oldest nephew, Donavon, got married this past Saturday to Cindy. Jacob and Gavin got to hand out programs before the ceremony. Then they got to run around and play with their cousins at the reception.

Gavin waiting with cousin Gentry for the ceremony to start.

a family shot after the ceremony

Tuesday, May 13, 2014

Sunday, May 11, 2014

Race for the Cure 2014



Mother's Day Weekend we spent Saturday night at the Radisson Blu to be rested and ready for the Race for the Cure at the Mall of America on Sunday morning. The Rosenbergers stayed in one room and Jacob, Wyatt and I stayed with my mom in another. Gavin & Fred went to our house to take care of the dogs. Don't feel too bad for Gavin, he got to swim with his cousins and Aunt Adrea and Uncle Tim before heading home. The next morning we had "Team Live for Dessert" runners and walkers take to the streets and mall halls to raise money to find a cure for Breast Cancer.

Runners - Cori Silvestain, Amber, Alyssa, Karen Heinen, 
Adrea, Jacob, Kyle, and Kim Fuechtmann 

Jacob and Kyle AFTER their 3.2 mile run. They announced the "Live for Dessert" team runners "running for Grandma" as the boys came around the corner to the finish line.

See how their moms look a little redder/purpler?

Mom joined us for the indoor walk.

The whole "Live for Dessert" Team

Tuesday, May 6, 2014

A Time to Mourn

My dad passed away quietly early Friday morning, May 2nd, 2014. His cancer had moved into the lining of his brain and there was nothing we could do to stop it, so we moved him to hospice home near St Cloud the Saturday prior to his passing. He had a couple good days and many good visits.Then he rested up a couple days before making his trip to heaven. Mom and dad's 3 daughters were all there at the hospice house the night he passed. Although we saw him, said good buy, and saw him put into the ground its still hard to not expect him to call at any moment or send one of his cryptic texts. 

Jacob took dad's death very hard and had a really hard time at the visitation. Thankfully, my friend Becky helped him escape for a while and have some fun and recover a bit with her boys. I was also blessed to have my friend Cori rescue Gavin mid funeral service when he turned to me and said he had to go to the bathroom. 

I was very touched by all the friends and family that showed up to pay their respects and share their condolences. I was amazed by my niece and my sister who both spoke at the funeral. I was impressed with all Alyssa's material she showed up with at the funeral home a few short hours after dad passed. I will forever be in awe of my mom's strength and graciousness and her shining example of what "for better or worse" really means. I will forever remember my dad's generosity, passion for all things agriculture, his love for his family, especially his grandkids, and all the hard work he put in to make sure we had everything we wanted.

Dad's Obituary:

http://hosting-25516.tributes.com/obituary/show/ronald-a.-ron-jeske-101327647


Ronald A. Jeske, age 66, of Melrose, died Friday, May 2, 2014 at Quiet Oaks Hospice House in Luxemburg, surrounded by his family after a three year fight with lung cancer.
A funeral service will be held at 2 p.m. Monday, May 5 at St. Paul's Lutheran Church in Melrose. Pastor Kevin Mann will officiate and burial will follow at Oak Hill Cemetery in Melrose.
Friends may call from 1 to 4 p.m. Sunday and from 1 to 2 p.m. Monday at the church in Melrose.
Ronald Albert Jeske was born September 30, 1947 in Springfield, Minnesota. He graduated from Springfield High School and went on to attend South Dakota State University in Brookings and then graduated from the University of Minnesota with a degree in Agriculture. He married Nancy Friesen on July 20, 1968 in Springfield, MN. They had three daughters. Ron was a salesperson for US Steel, vo-tech teacher, and fertilizer plant manager before moving to Melrose and building Melrose Fertilizer in 1976. He loved spending many early hours and late nights running his business. Over the years, he was involved in many civic and business organizations. Later in life, his five grandchildren were his pride and joy and he loved to do anything with them. He didn't miss a chance to attend countless church programs and sporting events. He also enjoyed playing cards with the guys, driving around and looking at the crops, trips to South Dakota, walking his dogs, and spending lots of time with his family.
Ron will be remembered as a great family man and a mentor to many guys at the fertilizer plant. He was quick to say "good job" and give a pat on the back to many a young kid. All of Ron's employees were very important to him.
He will be sadly missed by Nancy, his wife of 46 years; mother, Lydia Jeske of Springfield; daughters, Alyssa (Joe) Rosenberger of Melrose, Amber (Fred) Middendorf of Chaska, and Adrea (Tim) Mauseth of St. Louis Park; brother, Doug Jeske of Springfield; five beloved grandchildren, Maddie, Jacob, Isaac, Gavin, and Wyatt; one niece; three nephews; and many other relatives and good friends. He is preceded in death by his father, Frank Jeske, in 1982.
A special thank you to the doctors and nurses at the Melrose Hospital, the staff at Quiet Oaks Hospice House, and to all our friends and family that have called, prayed, and visited us during this difficult time.
In lieu of flowers, memorials are preferred to American Cancer Society, Quiet Oaks Hospice House, or an organization of your choice.